Polyamory QUIZ

Do you really know how ready you are for an open or polyamorous relationship?

Take our free polyamory readiness quiz.

Then access coaching from top poly experts and join a compassionate community.

About Leveled Up Love & Our Poly Resources

Over several years Lea & Shai amassed knowledge through research and personal experience and grew a strong desire to help others. So they created Leveled Up Love, a thriving Facebook community of 7,000+ beautiful souls from 95+ countries, and The Secure Poly Collective, a series of transformative monthly workshops, designed to help polyamorous partners break free from jealousy and create more meaningful and loving open relationships!

“They were not equipped with the best tools or proper guidance, so they suffered needlessly. Sadly, this is very common in polyamory!”

When they started their poly relationship, they struggled. They didn’t fully understand their individual needs and desires when it came to open-relating. They were not aware that there are many styles of open relating. They didn’t know how their different attachment styles would play into their relating strategies.

Today, Shai & Lea are considered two of the go-to people for ethical non-monogamy education. They see ethical non-monogamy as a vehicle for deep healing & personal growth. They cover subjects such as attachment styles, love languages, erotic blueprints, sacred sexuality, conscious communication, somatic/trauma healing, plant medicine inside Leveled Up Love.

They are also the founders of The Secure Poly Collective.


Shai & Lea talk about Polyamory on a national TV show called The Doctors

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Our Poly Community

Many of our quiz takers and non-monogamous friends are surrounded by people who just don’t know how to support them in their unique open relationship style. When they think of professional support, many find blocks around cost or finding a therapist who doesn’t think their love style is unhealthy.

This inspired Lea & Shai to create their VIP membership community, The Secure Poly Collective — a discreet, higher touch, heart-centered support program for open relating, where you’ll find the best coaches, tools & resources.

The Secure Poly VIP Membership

Get a free 30-day trial of all workshops, events, and community support

Start the Poly Quiz

The quiz consists of 8 quick multiple choice questions, plus one optional bonus question.

It takes 2-3 minutes to complete and will help you create more fun, secure and conscious

open relationships.

Get proper support for your open love style.