Create More Loving Open Relationships

Go from Poly Panic to Poly Security with Coaching from Top Experts & Support from a Compassionate Community

It’s often frustrating to feel jealousy in consensual non-monogamy. But it does happen more often than many think. Past trauma comes up and that’s not easy to control. It can also be hard to find people to date, or friends to talk to who understand you. We learned from our own path and decided to help others.

What It's Like to Join The Secure Poly Collective, by Leveled Up Love?

Leveled Up Love is a safe and friendly polyamorous community devoted to helping our members thrive in conscious open relationships, forming deeper and more stable bonds.

We designed The Secure Poly Collective program to help you feel safe and seen while giving you the tools to manage the freedoms and responsibilities of exploring open relationships. We love seeing our members growing, healing, and being in service to others.

What You Get Out of Our Workshops with Expert Polyamory Coaches

Amanda
Tantra Demonstration Class (Online)
Francesca
BDSM and Kink for Healing Workshop (Online)
Derek
America's Relationship Rebuilder

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About Leveled Up Love

We struggled through decades of monogamy. Guilt, shame, stagnation; we came away certain only that some form of open relating was right for us. But polyamory had its own unique and specific challenges.

Starting with just a few basic rules didn’t save us from strife and heartaches. But after 10 years, some hard-won lessons, and advice from experts, we’ve been on a non-stop growth and healing trajectory.

And, we want you along for the ride!

Polyamory Education from Our Blog

A Letter to the Man Who Shares the Woman I Love

This essay is a companion to my love’s Letter To The Woman Whose Man I’m Sleeping With. Both letters were inspired by the exquisitely vulnerable…

A Letter to the Man Who Shares the Woman I Love

This essay is a companion to my love’s Letter To The Woman Whose Man I’m Sleeping With. Both letters were inspired by the exquisitely vulnerable…

A Letter to the Man Who Shares the Woman I Love

This essay is a companion to my love’s Letter To The Woman Whose Man I’m Sleeping With. Both letters were inspired by the exquisitely vulnerable…

What Our Members Have To Say

“The Secure Poly Collective, by Leveled Up Love, is valuable for anyone looking to consciously explore relationships beyond monogamy. Building a love life that exists ‘outside the box’ can come with many challenges, but sharing and learning in a forum of like-minded hearts have been a healing experience of support and community for me.”

Teagan A.

“I had an amazing time attending the Virtual Pleasure Garden, by Leveled Up Love. I loved the feelings of togetherness and loving connection that was created, as well as the amazing performers who offered beautiful gifts of flow with so much heart, skill, and sensuality.”

David F.

“Leveled Up Love has provided so many people a sacred space to be vulnerable, receive support, and expand their minds on all things love and communication. What the community leaders have created is high-level, conscious, and full of wonderful information that people are so desperately in need of right now.”

Erin D.

Level Up Your Love Journey

Feel supported by people who really get you. Grow with powerful conflict resolution tools. Heal trauma that causes jealousy.

Date and explore new relationship adventures.

Truly enjoy your open relating lifestyle.